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How to Know When You or Someone You Know Needs Help

 

Individuals, couples and families seek therapy for a variety of reasons:

  • for emotional relief and support in the midst of a crisis
  • for treatment of psychological challenges associated with physical or biochemical problems
  • to address long-term healing and growth in their character and in their ability to be in relationships
  • to manage conflicts

Therapy is also helpful to address life and relationship patterns that no longer work including:

  • Lifecycle transitions
  • Grief and loss
  • Parenting issues
  • Couple’s issues/communication
  • Questions about spirituality
  • Questions about sexuality
  • Family of origin issues

You may be the first to recognize when someone—including you—may need help. These are some distress signals to pay attention to in yourself or in someone close to you:

  • feelings of loneliness, moodiness, depression, failure, anxiety
  • persistent feelings of dissatisfaction with marriage or family life
  • sexual problems or concerns
  • unexplainable fatigue
  • difficulties in talking with fiancé, spouse, children, parents, other family members, friends, or co-workers
  • problems with a child’s behavior, school adjustment, or performance
  • the need for tranquilizers, energizers or sleeping aides
  • family stress due to repeated illnesses or illness in which stress plays a major role
  • a recent traumatic event (death, job loss, accident, injury, divorce, break-up)
  • problems with alcohol or drugs
  • repeated financial difficulties
  • difficulty in setting or reaching goals
  • drastic weight fluctuations or irregular eating patterns
  • work difficulties, frequent job changes, problems with co-workers
  • unmanageable anger, hostility, or violence

Written by Particia Ellen Burgin, M.A., (www.seattlecoach.com) and taken in part from A Consumer’s Guide to Marriage and Family Therapy by the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy